Maybe, maybe not. I came around, didn't I?

[The situation is more similar than she realizes, but right now she understands that things are different from her own situation, not knowing what Danse is himself right now. Sigh.]

And if it's one thing I know from personal experience, it's that it isn't always a good idea to keep poking a hornet's nest. [Sans has learned that the hard way from Rey.] These things take time.